Violentómetro, Violence Meter
Marcador, bookmark from the Museo de la Mujer in Mexico City, www.museumdelamujer.org.mx
Categoría 1, Category 1: Be careful, violence tends to increase
Ten Cuidado, la violencia aumentará.
Bromas hirientes, hurtful jokes
Chantagear, blackmail
Mentir, engañar, lying, cheating, betrayal
Ignorar, ley del hielo, ignoring you, freezing you out
Celar, being jealous
Culpabilizar, blaming
Descalificar, being dismissive
Ridiculizar, offender, ridiculing, being offensive
Humillar en public, humiliate in public
Categoría 2, category 2: Reacciona! No te deges destruir, take action, do not let yourself be destroyed
Intimidar, amenazar, intimidation, threats
Controlar, prohibir (amistades, familiares, dinero, lugares, vestimenta, apariencia, actividades, mails, cellular)
Controlling, prohibitions (friendships, family, money, movement, clothing, appearance, activities, mail, cell phone)
Destruir pertenencias, destroys belongings
Manosear, unwelcomed touching, groping
Caricias agresivas, aggressive caresses, touching
Gopear “jugando,” hitting “in fun”
Pellizcar, arañar, pinching, scratching
Empujar, jalonear, pushing, dragging, pulling
Cachetear, slapping in the face
Patear, kicking
Categoría 3, Category 3:
Encerrar, aislar, lock up, isolate
Amenazar con objetos o armas, threaten with objects or weapons
Amenazar de muerte, threaten with death
Forzar a una relación sexual, force sex on you
Abuso sexual, sexual abusiveness
Violación, rape
Mutilar, mutilation
Asesinar, murder